Why are hermits happy ? They don't wear trendy footwear, expensive watches or drive big cars. They do not have the privilege of social bonds , affection from family and friends. While I am writing, I am wondering what is the basis of my question ! Why should they not be happy? Who determined what must make us happy or unhappy ? Social construct , is it? It is formed over centuries which leads us to believe what we believe in . It exists because humans acknowledge its existence whereas it may not exist if seen objectively. If one is unhappy, it is because S/he got things contrary to this construct. Tough is to break free from it and create a new one. To break free means to rebuild the frame that we live in, the frame which defines love, hatred, desirable, undesirable, success, failure and so on. Freeing up the mind from pre existing and filling it up with new definitions, This is creativity ! Can we just flip this construct ? and see the magic unfold.
Plans that we had conceived are swayed away ! Many a times they fructify while at other times surprisingly different outcomes are encountered. We do not know who caused them and how they were created. Some major shakeups just come from nowhere like a typhoon which leave behind stillness and nothing is same any more ! Some new order is seen, a new arrangement of the constituents of life! We try hard to find some things or hold on to others, yet we never find them or are able to preserve them. Maybe we are born with some entitlements decided by we don’t know who. May be god, may be that is destiny ! Does this give a grim picture of life, making us humans a pawn in the hands of some unknown power? It gives me more power though to think that I don’t control everything and that some things are beyond me. With this thought I can blame myself less for my failures which makes it easier to move on and start all over again. Being inactive and leaving things to DESTINY is no alter