We never wish to admit that someone who we love can ever hurt so we try to give every possible explanation to protect him/her. However we pay the price for this . Inside, it kills but we choose to suffer and not admit the truth. If we try to shield and cover up for long, it increases our own suffering.
This arrangement cannot be sustainable. Some day we can be pushed into deep inconsolable pain .We may pretend having no pain and hence will do nothing to alleviate it. We might as well blame our expectations and cause more self harm. That is why the pain inflicted by a loved one causes more harm than that of a stranger . Our heart does not accept the truth and we bear the suffering quietly without even acknowledging it.
If we are worn out ourselves, we become incapable of protecting others. So I guess best is to
acknowledge , forgive and move on.
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