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Move on

  We never wish to admit that someone who we love can ever hurt so we try to give every possible explanation to protect him/her. However we pay the price for this . Inside, it kills  but we choose to suffer and not admit the truth. If we try to shield and cover up  for long, it  increases our own suffering.  This arrangement cannot be sustainable. Some day we can be pushed into deep inconsolable pain .We may pretend having no pain and hence will do nothing to alleviate it. We might as well blame  our expectations and cause more self harm. That is why  the pain inflicted by a loved one causes more harm than that of a stranger . Our heart  does not accept the truth and we bear the suffering quietly without even acknowledging it. If we  are worn out ourselves, we become incapable of protecting others. So I guess best is to acknowledge , forgive and move on.

Good selfishness

  You are the only one who stays with you till the last breath. You are your accomplice in life so treat yourself well. People will come and go but you will stay with you. Love yourself. Do not always kill your inner desires and the things that you like, don’t struggle always to go upstream. Sometimes just go with the flow because we anyway do not always know which direction is the right one. Don’t be hard on you because you may wither yourself away and what will remain is your body and the soul with die. What will you do with a life without a soul. Love yourself, nourish your body and mind with healthy and positive things. Your duty as a human being is certainly not to ill treat yourself. Being good to others should in no way mean not being good to yourself. Sacrificing too much for others may sometimes render you incapable of giving more to them. If you wish to constantly give to others then it is necessary that you care for yourself and keep yourself happy. Your own happiness is

Enigma of life

  It is interesting that I did not choose to be born, I got this life from someone. Once my journey begins this life which was not my choice became so much just mine that I am dying to live. Everyday life tests me, I go through pain and suffering and struggle to keep myself alive every day. If I am rich, I am constantly working towards making my life more and more comfortable and enjoyable and If I am poor, I am struggling to feed myself everyday to stay alive. I try to control my life, it’s events and plan for future to make it safe and livable. Yet, I lose control because the situations I did not plan for arrived un-invited. This is the hide and seek of life. For some life is picture perfect whereas for others nothing works. We are in search of answers to such questions constantly wondering what is the mechanism of life, can we create a rule book and just follow it? Life would be simpler, but life continues to be an enigma.

Cant see them rot !

  A bunch of roses in a flower vase is adorable, it spreads fragrance and displays beauty but a time comes when we need to let it go or else it will rot in front of our eyes and we can’t see that. Change is the rule of nature.  It could be people, objects, our adamancy & insistence about things which needs to be let go. Old replaces new, memories stay with us, haunt us..... However, Sometimes we need to let go!

Don't you trust your craziness ?

  I think it is easier to set an example and chalk out a new path than to follow an already treaded path. This might sound crazy but believe me being a follower all life is tiring and disappointing at times if it does not fetch results. On the contrary if you create a new opportunity so that others follow you, you are actually creating possibilities for yourself and for others. We have to choose between whether we wish to be at other’s mercy and wait for directions or do we need to innovate and be in charge while opening up new doors. Welcome to entrepreneurship! Innovation,   is not easy but if we spent equal efforts on this rather than running around to seek from others, we shall be making a more productive use of our energy and we can end up with some tangible idea. For those who have aptitude but low confidence this write up would be quite helpful. I have one thing to say to them and that is don’t feel small and insignificant when you see   all the big initiatives being taken